Sometimes life gets tricky and the last thing you want to do is think about the person making it hard.
Over time though, I have come to appreciate the merit of trying to react to any given situation based on the ‘full’ picture. Taking 5 seconds to ask myself ‘if I were them, what would I have done?’ helps me to frame my thinking in a more balanced and positive way.
Balance and perspective are less regrettable than rage and hurt. As often as you can, walk away with your head held high.